Counseling Skills Course
“I closed my eyes and thought: what would I like to do if I participated, as a psychologist, in a counseling skills course? And if I did it as a social worker or a family mediator, would it be different? How might it be experienced by a lawyer, a doctor, or a teacher? I imagined, then, a course that, in addition to offering counseling skills (related to active listening, assertiveness, resolving conflict situations, knowing how to ask questions and formulate hypotheses or redefine positively), would become a journey where the sum of the training days would be for each person a way to feel better about themselves and become not only a better professional but, above all, a more "beautiful" person.” (C. Edelstein)..
The Counseling Skills Course offered by the Shinui Center, recognized by AssoCounseling (Professional Category Association), follows the Sistemic Pluralist model created by Cecilia Edelstein and aims at the development of human potentials, intertwining the power of storytelling - including autobiographical - with emotions, the use of space, and listening to the body. The challenge is to intertwine the three levels of theory, practice, and experience in a balanced way. The experiential aspect concerns self-work within the group, also using non-verbal expressive techniques, partly developed by the Shinui Center staff.
The Shinui Center’s Counseling Skills Course aims to promote the knowledge of new methodologies for thinking and working for not only professional but also personal growth through the development of communication skills in work contexts and daily life, availability for active listening, the ability to make participants more aware of their biases, even to use them in working with people, and to promote conflict management skills, achieving greater work and personal well-being.
The intention is to start from the students, their life experiences, and their theoretical-practical knowledge. Given the heterogeneous nature of the group's basic training, care will be taken to work on each person's resonances and thus on the individual and group self.
31 training credits and 14 ethical credits will be recognized by Croas Lombardia.
The course grants the title of “Counseling Skills Professional” and provides the opportunity to register with the Italian Register of Counseling Skills Professionals at AssoCounseling.
Course recognized by
AssoCounseling

Definition
Definition
It is generally thought that professional choice is primarily a more or less accurate response to one's nature, personal characteristics, strengths, tastes, and resources. Choosing a profession, however, is rather an identity choice that does not come by chance but is contextualized within the relational systems in which we grew up and is marked by the path traversed in personal biography.
The narratives connected to life history, which will be examined during the course, will allow individual group members to become more aware of their choices, the constraints related to them, and the needs they address. This greater awareness can outline individual goals for the current training path, as Counseling Skills, while transversal, are specific to each profession and individual.
What remains common to all is the interest in Counseling, a professional activity that has received various definitions over the last few decades and has traced a history over the almost past century.
Objectives
Objectives
- Gain awareness regarding one's choice of a profession in the helping relationship.
- Enrich personal resources through self-knowledge and understanding of one's emotions.
- Learn new relational methodologies for personal and professional growth.
- Develop communication skills and meet diversity.
- Encourage the availability for active listening.
- Develop assertiveness in work contexts and daily life.
- Promote conflict management skills.
- Achieve greater work and personal well-being.
Structure
Structure
Duration
10 days of 8 hours each, from 9:30 AM to 5:30 PM, on Saturdays, plus a residential seminar for an entire weekend out of town (Saturday and Sunday).
Assessment of Acquired Skills
As it is a small group, students are closely followed and supported throughout their journey. Each training day has a personal aspect related to self-work and a practical aspect related to exercises. In this sense, each meeting represents an opportunity to engage with the growth and development process. Additionally, towards the end of the year, each participant will prepare a brief written report on their experiences during the training and its impact on their work. This report will be presented by each student on the last training day in the format they find most suitable (any form of creativity is allowed).
Absences
Students are required to attend all lessons and seminars (a maximum of 10% of total course hours is allowed for absences). Attendance at the residential seminar is mandatory; in case of illness or other impediments, absences from lessons can be recovered by arranging the most appropriate method with the instructors. For the residential seminar, recovery can be done by attending other seminars organized by Shinui or other schools with a systemic approach, provided it is previously agreed with their tutor/responsible (additional costs may apply for these training proposals).
Residential Seminar
The residential seminar, held with other students from Shinui Center courses, will involve small cross-course working groups, in a sort of itinerant experiential labs. The groups will be coordinated by Shinui Center instructors and their respective tutors. Each group will follow a different sequence (some will start with the first lab up to the fourth, others will follow the second lab, and so on). The lab is not to be considered as a linear space for simply recounting and sharing one's story but as an experiential space where each person has the opportunity to build their own narrative through stimuli received from other participants' stories and through non-verbal and narrative expressive techniques applicable to counseling (cards, collages, images...). There will be plenary sessions as well as enjoyable and informal meetings such as the Saturday lunch or dinner.
Final Report
Each participant will prepare a brief written report (approximately 10 pages) on their experiences during the training and its impact on their work, which will be presented at the final meeting.
Methodology
Methodology
The training follows the Sistemic Pluralist model created by Cecilia Edelstein, which aims at the development of human potential, intertwining the power of storytelling - including autobiographical - with emotions, the use of space, and listening to the body. The lessons will be conducted in a dialogic and active mode, with a circle session. Sometimes, activities may take place in small subgroups utilizing the Shinui Center space. Special attention will be given to self-work within the group, with the help of non-verbal expressive techniques, practical applications, without neglecting theoretical frameworks. The challenge is to balance the three levels of theory, practice, and experience in the training.
Target Audience
Target Audience
The Counseling Skills Course promoted by the Shinui Center is aimed at professionals who, in their daily practice, work with people and wish to improve their work skills through relational and communication abilities: social workers, lawyers, community educators-animators, professional educators, trainers, nurses, teachers, doctors, social operators, pedagogists, psychologists, etc. At the end of the course, a Certificate titled “Counseling Skills Professional” will be awarded, allowing registration in the AssoCounseling Register.
In our first edition starting in 2023, some professionals not involved in the helping relationship participated to explore the possibility of changing orientation or for personal enrichment (videomakers, management engineers, etc.). Their participation enriched everyone's experience. For those intending to join the course in this sense, a Participation Certificate (and not the title allowing registration in the AssoCounseling Register) will be awarded.
Instructors
Instructors
- Cecilia Edelstein - Coordinator
- Orietta Sponchiado
- Luigi Ubbiali
- Silvia Luraschi
Content
Theoretical Content
- Kaleidoscope of helping professions and Counseling Skills.
- Communication theory, observation models.
- History of Counseling in Italy and worldwide.
- Judgment and prejudice.
- Practical applications of Counseling techniques and tools (methodological and personal levels).
- Sistemic-pluralist techniques: autobiographical storytelling through non-verbal expressive techniques (images, collages, various types of genograms, etc.) and self-work.
- Basic predisposition of the practitioner, reflections on personal style.
- Teamwork, building a network, multidisciplinarity and interdisciplinarity, the self in the group.
- From personal relationship with conflict (starting from personal biography) to effective management of conflict dynamics.
- Belongings (personal, professional, group, family, cultural, etc.).
In addition to theoretical content, the course includes exercises, self-work for the practitioner, and case supervision.
